Kekerasan Terhadap Anak

Kekerasan Terhadap Anak

The last few years we were struck by the print and electronic media coverage of cases of child abuse, and some of them should be exhaled her last breath. According to data from child rights violations yangdikumpulkan National Commission for Child Protection. From the master data of existing child protection agencies in 30 provinces in Indonesia and service complaints to the agency, in 2006 the number of cases of violation of children's rights are observed as many as 13,447,921 cases and in 2007 the number increased 40,398,625 cases. Besides, the National Commission on Children also reported that during the period from January to June 2008 as many as 12 726 children are victims of sexual violence from the nearest merekaseperti biological parents / step / adopted, teacher, uncle, grandfather and tetangga.Data these statistics, coupled with data on the number of cases of child abduction, child trafficking cases, children are exposed to secondhand smoke, children who are victims of drug trafficking, children who can not access the means of education, child health services untouched and children who do not have birth certificates, clarifying the grim picture of the fulfillment of rights -hak Indonesian children. The delinquency is the most frequent cause of anger parents, so that children receive punishment and when accompanied by emotions then the parents do not hesitate to hit or physical violence. If this is often experienced olehanak it will cause a deep wound on the physical and inner. That will cause resentment on her parents and trauma in children. Another consequence of the violence children will feel low self-esteem because they feel deserve punishment so that the lower achievement in school or social relationships and interactions with friends - his friends to be disturbed, it will affect the confidence of children who should have woken up since childhood. What happened will make children imitate the violence and behaving aggressively by hitting or snapped in case of resentment within himself. Another result of the child will always be anxiety, nightmares, depression or problems disekodihukum.

Many parents consider child abuse is normal. They think violence is part of disciplining children. They forget that the parent is the person most responsible for seeking the welfare, protection, increased survival, and optimize their children's growth. The family is where children first learn to know the rules that apply in the family and society. Of course in this learning process, children are likely to make mistakes. Starting from the mistakes made, the child will be more aware of the actions that are beneficial and unbeneficial, improper or inappropriate. But parents addressing the learning process of children is wrong with violence. For parents, children who violate the act needs to be controlled and punished. for parents whose children do the actions that violate that need to be controlled and punished.

Wikipedia Indonesia (2006) gives the sense that the violence refers to acts of aggression and violations (torture, rape, beatings, etc.) That caused or intended to cause suffering or harm others. The term also connotes violence aggressive tendency to destructive behavior. Violence occurs when someone uses force, power, and his position to hurt someone else on purpose, not by accident (Andez, 2006). Violence also includes threats, and acts that could result in injury and loss. Wounds can be caused by physical injury, feelings, thoughts, which is detrimental to children's health and mental.kekerasan According Andez (2006) child abuse is any act that hurts and harm the physical, mental, and sexual abuse including insults include: Neglect and ill-treatment , exploitation including sexual exploitation and trafficking / sale of children. While the Child Abuse is all forms of violence against children are committed by those who should be responsible for the child or those who have authority over the child, which should be in trust, such as parents, close relatives, and teachers.

A case which has recently revealed a case of violence against Angeline. After missing, 25 days later Angeline tragically pronounced dead. 8 year old boy is found dead in the backyard of her own home. And now this latest investigation is suspected the step-mother was involved in the murder of Angeline. This murder case is very angered the people of Indonesia. Because of murder committed against Angeline is inhumane.

To avoid violence against children is how family members interact with effective communication. Often we get the parents in communicating to children accompanied by a personal desire very dominant, and consider the child as a result of the production of the parents, it must always be equal to the parent and can be treated anything.