Kekerasan Terhadap Anak
The last few years we were struck by the
print and electronic media coverage of cases of child abuse, and some of them
should be exhaled her last breath. According to data from child rights
violations yangdikumpulkan National Commission for Child Protection. From the
master data of existing child protection agencies in 30 provinces in Indonesia
and service complaints to the agency, in 2006 the number of cases of violation
of children's rights are observed as many as 13,447,921 cases and in 2007 the
number increased 40,398,625 cases. Besides, the National Commission on Children
also reported that during the period from January to June 2008 as many as 12
726 children are victims of sexual violence from the nearest merekaseperti
biological parents / step / adopted, teacher, uncle, grandfather and
tetangga.Data these statistics, coupled with data on the number of cases of
child abduction, child trafficking cases, children are exposed to secondhand
smoke, children who are victims of drug trafficking, children who can not
access the means of education, child health services untouched and children who
do not have birth certificates, clarifying the grim picture of the fulfillment
of rights -hak Indonesian children. The delinquency is the most frequent cause
of anger parents, so that children receive punishment and when accompanied by
emotions then the parents do not hesitate to hit or physical violence. If this
is often experienced olehanak it will cause a deep wound on the physical and
inner. That will cause resentment on her parents and trauma in children.
Another consequence of the violence children will feel low self-esteem because
they feel deserve punishment so that the lower achievement in school or social
relationships and interactions with friends - his friends to be disturbed, it
will affect the confidence of children who should have woken up since
childhood. What happened will make children imitate the violence and behaving
aggressively by hitting or snapped in case of resentment within himself.
Another result of the child will always be anxiety, nightmares, depression or
problems disekodihukum.
Many parents consider child abuse is normal.
They think violence is part of disciplining children. They forget that the
parent is the person most responsible for seeking the welfare, protection,
increased survival, and optimize their children's growth. The family is where
children first learn to know the rules that apply in the family and society. Of
course in this learning process, children are likely to make mistakes. Starting
from the mistakes made, the child will be more aware of the actions that are
beneficial and unbeneficial, improper or inappropriate. But parents addressing
the learning process of children is wrong with violence. For parents, children
who violate the act needs to be controlled and punished. for parents whose
children do the actions that violate that need to be controlled and punished.
Wikipedia Indonesia (2006) gives the sense
that the violence refers to acts of aggression and violations (torture, rape,
beatings, etc.) That caused or intended to cause suffering or harm others. The
term also connotes violence aggressive tendency to destructive behavior.
Violence occurs when someone uses force, power, and his position to hurt
someone else on purpose, not by accident (Andez, 2006). Violence also includes
threats, and acts that could result in injury and loss. Wounds can be caused by
physical injury, feelings, thoughts, which is detrimental to children's health
and mental.kekerasan According Andez (2006) child abuse is any act that hurts
and harm the physical, mental, and sexual abuse including insults include:
Neglect and ill-treatment , exploitation including sexual exploitation and
trafficking / sale of children. While the Child Abuse is all forms of violence
against children are committed by those who should be responsible for the child
or those who have authority over the child, which should be in trust, such as
parents, close relatives, and teachers.
A case which has recently revealed a case of
violence against Angeline. After missing, 25 days later Angeline tragically
pronounced dead. 8 year old boy is found dead in the backyard of her own home.
And now this latest investigation is suspected the step-mother was involved in
the murder of Angeline. This murder case is very angered the people of
Indonesia. Because of murder committed against Angeline is inhumane.
To avoid violence against children is how
family members interact with effective communication. Often we get the parents
in communicating to children accompanied by a personal desire very dominant,
and consider the child as a result of the production of the parents, it must
always be equal to the parent and can be treated anything.
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